Validating and empathizing
And one in three children grow up without a father.
Although a majority of these fatherless homes are found in lower income situations, that's not always the case. John Gottman reminds: "Providing words [to describe the problem] can help children transform an amorphous, scary, uncomfortable feeling into something definable -- something that has boundaries and is a normal part of life...
The mother should keep in mind (as comfort for herself) that if a man can be so conscience-less as to abandon their own flesh-and-blood child, that this man might have been a less than stellar role model in the child's life.
Important note for site admins: If you are the administrator of this website note that your access has been limited because you broke one of the Wordfence advanced blocking rules.Listening is key to being there for your partner, and it can be more challenging when you feel a strong desire to react or to defend yourself.To keep the focus on your partner, think about these three skills: I used to train hotline counselors in how to use these skills with callers, and it can take some practice to feel like you’re making them your own.Validation can be a tremendously useful skill in resolving conflicts, helping people who have problems, and strengthening relationships.This section encompasses a variety of mostly verbal techniques.