Anyway, i fell pregnant, we i thought were both excited, i got to 8 weeks pregnant and all of a sudden to my knowledge he ran.
He said he couldnt deal with it etc, etc:i am obviously going ahead with the pregnancy because its what i/we wanted. i mean i know im a good mother and able to bring my children up alone, but the companionship side of it? " because it's what i/we wanted." Hmmmmmm from you own statement..not we..it's a U...furthermore, a child NEEDS both parents...a kid needs a mom and dad..really do! take care of your kids...have decided to be a parent so be a parent...the best parent you can be.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I was with my ex for 6 years, we had everthing shared, house pets, money etc: We decided to have a child who is now 3.
We then chose together to have another back in december.
And figure out how you are going to make this situation work as a sole parent. I'd have to wonder if you just didn’t bother to think this through, or whether you weren't self-indulgent to the point of gross negligence especially in light of your current situation.
With one in the oven and a recently departed ex, you obviously have lots of significant unfinished business.
Do you REALLY think this is an appropriate time to be inviting strange men into your life?
On the flip side, what kinds of strange men do you think would not hesitate to overlook everything that's unbefitting to date someone in your circumstance? You certainly aren't undateable because you're pregnant.
If you need help to take care of those kids financially, your dating options will probably decrease.
I would say, set aside your needs and wants and focus on the little ones..do come first. Sometimes as parents, our own wants and wishes, go on the back burner.
Just from a financial stand point, you have some serious expenses coming your way in the next few months and dating simply isn't high on the priority list.
Make those evenings off times with friends and family who will be supportive of you during this transitional time.
People where you don't need to be concerned about any ulterior motive.